Kedoshim, Holiness

Two principle ideas are noteworthy in this parasha.

“With righteousness shall you judge your neighbor.”  When we look at others we make judgments about their behaviors based on what we know about them (this is called prejudice) or what we judge them as doing at the moment.  In the latter instance, we are directed to be fair.  Being fair means not rushing to condemn or be harsh.  We are told not to magnify faults or look for the worst in them.  Rather, Torah tells us to look for the best.

"Love your neighbor as you love yourself."Rabbi Akiva called this the cardinal principal of Torah, while Hillel said, "This is the entire Torah, the rest is commentary." 

The word for love in Hebrew is "ahava."  “Ahava” in gematria, the numerical value of the letters is 13.  When that love is amplified (in other words we love ourselves and extend that love to others) we get the number 26.  Twenty-six is the gematria of God’s name.  Through loving one another and ourselves we achieve “kedoshim,” the name of our parasha, which means holiness. 

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D'Var Aher

In confronting Moses, Korah declares, “All Israel is holy.” 1 There is no contesting the truth of the claim of Korah. The people are holy, as Rashi explains, because they each heard the Word of God when they stood at Sinai. That moment transformed them forever


The Torah reading this week called kedoshim seems to say something different. It states, “You shall be holy.” Were they holy? Or were they to become holy? Was the Israelite nation that saw and heard God kodesh, holy, because of the encounter? Or did holiness come to them because of some other event?

Rav Soleitchik observed that every Jew has an innate kedusha. There exists inside of us a soul, a kernel of holiness, that we always carry. Yes, each one of us is holy tells Rav Soleitchik. Yet, Korah was exaggerating in one not-so-obvious way.

There are levels of holiness. The degree of holiness depends upon the realization and accessing of that soul-gift. True, our soul is innately holy but if the soul is ignored or squashed, its voice can go unheard. It is almost as if it does not exist. At any moment the soul could awaken and break through the barriers that have kept it contained but until then it passes unseen, unacknowledged, as if it did not exist.

When the soul-voice is heard the physical actions of the person can allow it to ascend making the person more holy. In other words, holiness is not an absolute; it happens in degrees. There is less and more holy. This is the meaning of this Torah reading where God declares, “You shall be holy.” The people obviously had holiness within them but they could still spiritually grow. Rashi again helps us when he reveals that when a Jewish person resists the temptation to give in to the sitra achra, the dark side, they rise in holiness. That is why the Torah uses the future tense, shall, which tells us that the path to holiness is always open. One can aspire to greater holiness.

In the same verse, Leviticus 18:1, God adds that we can become holy because He, God, is holy. This is not a platitude. The Safat Emet explains that the holiness of the One God is limitless. There is not end to His kedusha. There is no point when a person can declare - as Korah seems to do - that they have already reached the highest level of holiness. They can never say that there is no need to do anything more. On the contrary, our potential for growth and holiness is without end.

Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Berdichev goes even further by saying that every time we observe mitzvot and grow in holiness God also increases in holiness. We are inseparably connected to God and our actions inflate the holiness of the Master. Is this true? Can it possibly be that we make God more holy?

What Levi Yitzchak means is that the more we grow in holiness the greater our awareness of holiness becomes. At first our vision is limited by our understanding. We see little and we understand little. As our understanding of things holy expands, we begin to see more and more of the radiance of haKadosh Barukh Hu everywhere. Our limitations no longer hold us back from seeing the grandeur of God. The expansiveness of God seems to grow.

The Talmud 2 explains that holiness hangs on the way we connect with God and Torah. In fact, the word for holy, kodesh, really means separating. When we take the time to categorize our speech, behavior and observance in terms of mitzvot, we separate or infuse our behavior with holiness. The simple act of thinking about what we do and asking, “Is this what God wants from me?” fills every space with kedusha.

Sanctified living is about the small matters of life. Looking at the world through the lens of what God wants of us means weighing our words very carefully before speaking. It means thinking about how we conduct business. It involves considering how we dress and our mode of sexual behavior. Even eating is a part of our identity. Each nuance of living can be guided by holiness. This is what the Torah means when it expresses the thought “You shall be holy.” Do not stop growing. Walk with God.

1 Bamidbar 16:3
2 Yevamot 20a

Pesach

In the Pesach seder we read each year, “In every generation a person should see themselves as if they were personally liberated from Egypt.” This is a powerful phrase and idea on many levels.

1.  Pathos.  A Jews we should never be so callous as to dismiss the pain others have experienced. When we become inured to the cries of the hopeless we are the ones lost.

2.   The Nation. We are not alone but part of the nation of Israel.  All across the globe Jews were breaking the middle matzah, saying the same blessings and reminding themselves that they are part of a single fabric of which we all form an integral part.  We see ourselves as kin, redeemed at the same moment.  We breathe life into one another.

3.  The Individual.  It is up to us to be aware that Egypt and slavery and ultimately redemption are the goals of Pesach.  As Jews, we feel with our soul the timelessness of the pain and suffering of the past.   It is said that every soul was enslaved, redeemed and present at Mt Sinai.  It is part of our collective unconscious.  You were there.

4.  Redemption.  Our lives cry out for liberation from personal enslavement.  Perhaps we are in the grip of addiction, or ignoring those who are addicted; maybe we need release from holding others as hostages to our ego; perhaps we are guilty of hoarding and not sharing what God has given us. Perhaps we are ashamed of what we have become.  This day is an opening, an opportunity for liberation.

In this, the last day of Pesach I wish you the strength and determination to make you and your ancestors proud and God beam with naches.  May this be His will. Amen.

D'var Aher

"Once, when Joshua was near Jericho, he looked up and saw a man standing before him, drawn sword in hand. Joshua went up to him [not realizing he was an angel] and asked: 'Are you one of us or are you for the enemies?' 

He replied: 'No, I am the captain of the Lord's host. Now I have come ' Joshua threw himself face down to the ground, and prostrating himself, said to him: 'What does my Lord command his servant?' The captain of the Lord's host answered Joshua: 'Remove your sandals from your feet, for the place where you stand is holy ' And Joshua did so." (5:13-15)

On Pesach we tell of rabbis debating past late at night and into the early hours in Bene Brak. We tell of four children with significantly different attitudes.  We bring together disparate ideas about necessity of making peace while recalling the Angel of Death.

Most tellingly, we gather together to strangers, friends and family to reconvene and remind ourselves that no matter our ideas about politics, Israel, and personal preferences about life, that we are one people.

Not everyone with whom we disagree is an enemy.  They may even be an agent of God.  In fact, there are tzaddikim (and even regular folks!) who believe that everyone is part of the woven tapestry that God holds as precious.  Each of us is a thread in that great tapestry.  We are different colors and striations.  Each thread is necessary.  Take one out and the entire picture undone.  

That is why Pesach is such a vital holy day. Besides celebrating our freedom and God’s deliverance we come together as one extended family.  

Sit down. Lean left.  Remove your shoes.  This is holy ground.  And God smiles.

D'var Aher

It is abundantly clear from the Haggadda: Every person is obligated to view themselves "as if" they had gone from Egypt.

How often in the Torah are we asked to imagine, “as if”? Can you think of any instances? One of the few times in Torah that the term is used is when God tells Abram that he gives the patriarch the great land of Israel. 1 Rashi, knowing that the gift would not be actually given to Abram until many, many years later, interprets the words of God “as if” the land were his now. In other words, Abram was supposed to imagine his gift, even though it had not yet arrived.

Few are the places where Judaism ever commands us to 'feel' anything. Mitzvot tend to regulate behavior, not thoughts and mind-sets. Laws are needed for the governance of a society. It does not really matter whether we agree with them or not. What is important is that we have laws. That is why Rabbi Hanina, of the second century, said that without laws, people would each other alive. 2 But what about feeling? Is this really necessary for a society to function? Does it matter at all what a person feels as long as they follow the law?

There is an argument in the Talmud over which idea ought to take precedence when teaching people: action or study. 3 Which of the two ideas is greater? If a person can only choose one of them, study or observance, which should they choose? In the ultimate analysis, the Sages decide that study takes precedence over action because it can lead to action while the reverse may not be true.

Then why is so little emphasis placed on feeling? If the rabbis believed that study is greater, why would they not also take the position that feeling is also a powerful spur to action? Isn't feeling also a powerful incentive to practice mitzvot?

Sure, we are commanded by the Torah to 'love' God. Love is an emotion, a feeling. What about the other feelings that should accompany our actions? Shouldn't we be expected to invest emotional energy into our performance of mitzvot?

Could it be that actions, mitzvot, leads to feelings? And not the other way around? Or perhaps were the Sages concerned that if we placed too much importance on the way people feel they would probably place the emphasis on intent over the Word of the Holy One? Maybe they would be prone to dismiss the power of observance in favor of feeling? That would be tragic.

Pesach is an exception. Here we are commanded to feel. Rambam goes so far as to instruct us that we must experience the immediate sensation of fleeing from the clutches of slavery. 4 The seder is not a bland ceremony, the master tells us, but an emotional call to feel the shame of the slavery, the power of deliverance, and the majesty of the miraculous departure.


Whenever we recite the Hallel psalms in a religious setting they are introduced with a blessing. The only exception is the Pesach seder. During the seder we simply sing as we segue from the words of the Haggadda to the inspiring words of King David. So why do we not say a blessing? Why do we just burst into song?

Teaches Rav Hai Gaon, we do not say a blessing for this Hallel because we throw ourselves soulfully into the joy of song. Pesach is meant to be an inspired moment. We sing to God of deliverance. We sing to God of rescue. We sing to God in amazement that the slavery has ended and we are free.

Perhaps after we have realized the fundamental principles of Pesach, after the long hours of scrubbing, covering, cooking, and entertaining we can open our hearts and simply sing. That would be a great thing. At that moment our souls can reach the highest levels of spirituality. "As if" becomes the reality of liberation. More, it becomes the nexus that brings us true freedom. Each Jew must feel "as if" they had been personally delivered from bondage.

Albert Einstein said, “Imagination is more important than knowledge.” For us, on Pesach, feeling is the ultimate triumph.


1 Genesis 15:18
2 Pirkay Avot 3:2
3 Yevamot 109b
4 Hilchot Hametz U’Matzah

Aharay Mot:

                                             Where Life Becomes Alive

Two disparate ideas converge in this parsha.

The first is the Avodah service that we read and hear on Yom Kippur. The other seemingly random idea is the admonition of HaShem to Aaron that he may not enter in the mishkan, Tabernacle, any time he wished. Aaron could only come when he was summoned by the Holy One, blessed be He.

The Avodah service is one of the least meaningful parts of Yom Kippur for modern Jews. Many progressive synagogues have eliminated the service entirely or have re-written it with a different meaning. It a nutshell, the Avodah contains the lengthy tale of the kohen preparing for a meeting with God in the Holy of Holies. From immersing in the frigid waters of the mikveh to the numerous changes of clothes to the tying of a rope around the kohen’s ankle to pull him out of the Holy of Holies if his actions and intent were not appropriate and he died to the poetic verses extolling the grandeur of the kohen gadol, the entire story is long and far removed from our life.

Most of the story is consumed with the arduous and meticulous preparations of the kohen. It is an instruction manual, not a gripping nail-biter. Finally, the climax of the story tells of two goats; one carrying the sins of Israel and the other to be offered up to God. It is an exhaustive, long and dry narrative.

In the next section of the parsha Aaron was reminded by God of the death of his two sons. Remember they came into the mishkan without preparation and subsequently died? The cautionary note to Aaron was that he was no longer welcome to come into the mishkan, except on special days.

Both stories reveal a great truth for our time. They are a great paradigm for our era.

Listen: Everything begins with a pinpoint of desire. When we want to buy a car we do research to find the one that best fits our need. We would not buy the first automobile we see on the lot. Purchasing a house requires thinking, reading and close examination. Running a marathon means deliberate and careful training. The same could be said for a business plan, an important meeting, writing a book, painting a picture…..

Praying is no different. It is not a passive endeavor. For some, it is gathering with other like-minded people for mutual support. At other times we come because we feel soulfully empty. At yet other times we come because we need healing. A religious service made meaningful when we come with an agenda. Unprepared for the event, the moment is squandered. We enter into a holy sanctuary with a purpose in mind.

For the children of Aaron the experience in the mishkan ended in death and mourning. For us the tale winds up in a withering spiritual desert, which may be worse than death because it is a life devoid of meaning. Both tales have the identical meaning: make for yourself a life worth living. Prepare for that event. Be aware. Open your senses to all that the universe has to offer.

One hasidic rebbe was asked what he did in the solitary time he spent before davenning each morning. He said, “I pray that I might pray.” Against this, there is a comment by a contemporary sage who said that ‘when someone says ‘let us pray’ you know he is ignorant. In other words it is no simple task to utter true words of prayer. It requires focus, determination and desire. To be so frivolous with words in believing that prayer can be conjured up like a cup of tea is a misuse of prayer
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Later in the Torah reading there is the phrase, “You shall observe My laws and keep My statutes to walk in them…” Leviticus 18:4

In the Talmud, a question about this is raised. What does it mean "walk in them"?

In its inimitable style Talmud answers that we must strive to make mitzvot, the commandments of God, a priority. They ought to foremost in our thoughts, not second or third but first. When our primary focus is meting out the Word of God; when nothing else comes into conflict with fulfilling the mitzvot, the force of the cosmos - every breath and action - becomes imbued with strength.

The Sefat Emet , Reb Yehudah Leib Alter, talks about his beloved zayde, grandfather, who said that this pasuk directs us to fold almost our energy into every act in order to make it holy. What does this mean? It means that we need to take ourselves, our actions and interactions very seriously. It means that the words we utter and actions we undertake can have cosmic repercussions. Done for the sake of the Almighty our life becomes holy and meaningful.

Note that he did not say we must devote all our energy to God: that is too much to ask of anyone. Yet, if we try to elevate a perfunctory and unthinking life through conscious living; if we know that there is a God who intensely cares about us and what we do, every act has the potential of being holy.


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Davar Acher

Before the famed Maggid of Mezritch died he blessed his disciples. To one, he gave good health. To another, he gave wisdom.  To a third, he gave his sense of humor.  And to Rebbe Elimelech he gave him the power of Tikkun Ha-Olam, improving the world.

When the Maggid passed away, Rabbi Elimelech went into the world, to work among people and improve their lives. At the end of two years she returned home and pondered, “Have I succeeded? Are the people any better off now than they were before?” He thought, “No.”

Falling asleep, he dreamt that he was in front of his master, The Maggid of Mezritch.

He said, “Other disciples have all succeeded but I have failed.”

His master replied, “It is true you went out into the world in order to make people better but what about those in your own city of Lizensk?”

Rabbi Elimelech took his words to heart and begin working with the people of his own town. Some time later, he asked himself again, “Have I succeeded? Are the people any better off now than they were before?” He thought, “No.”

The Maggid came to him again and instructed him to focus on his family before attempting to fix an entire city.

Rabbi Elimelech took the words to heart and begin working with the people his wife and children. Some time later, he asked himself again, “Have I succeeded? Are the people any better off now than they were before?” Once more he thought, “No.

“What about yourself?” asked the Maggid that night. “Have you begun with yourself?

This is the meaning of the passage in the Torah this week which states, “When Aaron made atonement for himself, for his household and then for the entire people Israel…” Lev 16:17

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Davar Acher                      Kippur

                                                                                             

16:2  Moshe is directed to tell the Great Kohen (Aaron, his brother) that he should not come within the Kapporet.  Interesting word.   Some people say the word means “lid”.  They are the same ones that say it probably means "curtain".  Others say it is the “seat of mercy”.  What is the shoresh (root) of the word?  The same as Kippur, isn’t it?

It is no accident that the next p’seukim (sentences) speak of Yom Kippur.

The times in a person’s life when they are  most likely to come close to holy places are when they are in deep pain.  And the Torah deliberately warns: “Man may not see Me and live.” (Ex 33:20).  That is what Nadav and Avihu did (the two sons of Aaron who mysteriously died).    The reason why Moshe is told by the Lord to keep to the outside of the kapporet is to avoid the same fate.  What similar place is there today where people could fall into the same trap?

What then follows in the Torah is what we call the Avodah Service.  This is the story we recite yearly on Yom Kippur.  The Great Kohen would do these things to ensure the forgiveness of the people.  Scholars are not quite sure what the word ‘kippur’ means.  Some believe that it means to verbally acknowledge how we have erred.   Others tell that it means canceling out the crimes of the past.  I think it means something entirely different.

 When Yom Kippur comes Jews will do teshuva.  What does this word teshuva mean?  It denotes ‘returning’.  What we can learn from this is that when we do not act with God we distance ourselves from Him. 

                          

‘Kippur’ may well meaning going away from the ways of God.  Name some ways people distance themselves from their Maker.

Metzora: Life's Pain

The episode in Torah portion this week commences with a disease called metzora. While the exact english name of the disease is not clear, metzora was a consuming whitish skin lesion that was likely contagious. The kohen, as judge, determined whether the disease was the dreaded metzora or not.

"...he shall be brought to the Kohen. Then the Kohen will go out...."

So what was the truth? There is a contradiction here: Did the kohen go out to the metzora? Or did the metzora go out to the kohen? What actually happened?

The general consensus of the Sages is that the metzora went to kohen. Why would they say that the metzora goes out to kohen? Because, they said, the afflicted must accept their condition before they can reach out for help. There are times when the loneliness of sitting in pain becomes so unbearable that all we want to do is sit and cry. All strength leaves us, it seems to just evaporate out of our pores, so that we remain alone, shivering, frightened, and feeling totally helpless.

There are other times when we just ignore the toothache, pretend that there is no lump or go on using the aching leg. It is critical to reach out your heart toward those who can offer help. We need someone to sit and hold our hand and take away the awful isolation. Help will only come when we venture out and seek it.

A simple example is when we are ill we need to see a doctor. We require assistance to get through the malaise. In our more complex universe, far more ailments cannot be assuaged by a paid professional. An operation or a prescription for drugs may not be the cure for what pains us. Those are the times we need to be strong enough to reach out beyond our ego and call for comfort. That is why the Sages tell us that when we are hurting we need to reach for help, not withdraw into a pitiful state of separation and perhaps ultimately self-loathing.

We have a family to support us. We form communities so that we will not have to endure the pain alone.

But it is the responsibility of the community not to wait for that to happen. For this reason, the kohen also needs to go out to the metzora.

Talmud teaches that the “metzora needs healing." 1 Is this true? Is this what the Torah reading is about? Healing the afflicted? Does the kohen facilitate healing? Is he doctor as well as priest?

It does not appear that the kohen effects healing at all. All he does is assess the afflicted one. The kohen ventures out to examine the metzora and determines whether this is an abrasion, a scar or the disease. If he finds them to be contaminated, the metzora is then exiled to outside the community. Rabbi Harold Kushner has taught that the healing to which the Talmud alludes is about the kohen making the time to physically go out and visit the afflicted himself. Such an act makes the one who has the lesions feel like they are important enough to be visited by Aaron and his progeny. That the head of the religious community goes out himself facilitates healing.

Idea: Maybe when we call someone who is sick we are performing a greater symbolic task than we even know.

Even a kohen can become metzora. What happens then? The kohen must go to another kohen. Is that difficult? Is it hard to admit to our weaknesses?

Rabbi Yisrael Salanter, a great nineteenth century moralist, made a powerful observation: A person has one eye weaker than the other. The weaker eye sees the faults in others, whereas the stronger eye sees your own faults.

It requires no special gift to be critical of others. For far too many people criticism comes easily. To be self-reflective, though, takes strength of character. Never let pride stand in way of wholeness, reaching out for healing, said Salanter.

“Life and death come from the mouth,” states the Talmud. In fact, the metzora disease is believed to come as a Divine punishment for engaging in slander. The action of a penitent soul would be to bring two birds to God once they have realized their sin.

One of the sacrificial birds was released while the other offered on the altar. Why was a bird brought and not another kind of animal, say, a lamb? Because a bird does not stop singing. Its voice continues to flow out its throat. In much the same way, the words uttered by the metzora flowed unceasingly. They never stopped to think about the damage they were doing or the sin they were committing.

The Sages also ask why one bird was killed and the other released. Midrash Lekach Tov provides an insight. The midrash declares that there are two kinds of speech. One kind of speech is when we bring good things to the world by monitoring what we say and thinking before speaking. The other is when we can bring destruction into the world by reckless, thoughtless words. One bird needs to die just as the evil thoughts expressed need to be to be extirpated. That does not mean though that we are to keep silent, never saying a word, for fear of saying something bad. Words can also bring great harmony. Just as one of the birds goes free so too when we offer healing and goodness our words fly and generate.

1 Megilla 8B

D'var Aher

The Torah states, “When you arrive in the land of Canaan, which I give to you as a possession, I will place a plague of leprosy on a house that you possess in the land.” Lev. 14:34)

Really?  God would do such a terrible thing to the new inhabitants of the land?  It is important to read behind the linesfor this text is most sacred.

It was said that the Canaanites placed their riches - gold and silver- in the walls of their homes.  Hearing that rumor might make anyone, the Israelites in our tale, anxious and desirous of gaining the land swiftly at any cost.  

As any thinking person knows, there is no gift that does not come with a price tag.  We have all heard stories about how families self-destruct when coming into large wealth.  It can become a plague that rips apart lovers, parents, partners and children. Therefore God warned the Israelites that terrible things lurked there if they were not careful.  

Yet another lesson is inside God’s warning, as well.  The pursuit of wealth for its own sake distorts the most important aspects of life like helping our neighbors, caring for the unfortunate and underprivileged. The pursuit of wealth or anything that solely feeds the ego is antithetical to everything that the Torah teaches.  We are to seek holiness, not accolades.  We are told to bring purity in our lives, not selfish gain.

If we desire blessing we become a blessing.

“Love God with all your might,” we are taught. This means that we are to pursue Torah, become one with it, help each other come closer to God and live kindness.

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Tazria: The Impurity of Life

The first of the Great Ten Commandments reads: I am the Lord your God. You shall have no other gods besides Me.

What is remarkable about the event when the Commandments were given is that it was a revelation to an entire people. Until now God had only revealed His Essence and Will to a chosen few. Noah, Abraham, Hagar, Sarah, Jacob, Isaac and others were the pre-Sinai recipients of the Word of God. They were singled out.

After the Sinai experience revelation was again restricted to individuals. Moses, Manoah, Hannah, Solomon and many prophets heard God. Throughout the long epochs from then until our day, never again were a people given the Message, only individuals.

One of the cited reasons for the mass revelation was that no one could proclaim that they alone were privy to the legislation of God. No person could assert they were singled out as special by the Holy One, blessed be He. Every participant at Sinai was equal. With this simple understanding of the greatest event in history will unfold the highest ideal for humanity.

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Tazria is a skin ailment. Some Sages declared that the skin disease came because the person was flawed. They had sinned through the words they spoke. The telltale mark on their flesh was an outward punishment of the malicious slander they spread. Only atonement could wash that mark away. Other commentators told that it was simply a disease that needed to be diagnosed, quarantined and cured. Perhaps it was neither. Perhaps it was both.

What is most telling from the Text is that when a person was seen to have the affliction people would cry out, tameh!, tameh!. "Unclean!" "Unclean!"

What humiliation! Not only did they suffer the embarrassment of a visible disease but it was trumpeted throughout the people. There was no hiding from their shame now.

The Talmud also questions why Tameh! would be shouted by neighbors. It reveals that the word Tameh! was the signal to pray for the person that was marked by the skin disease. People were moved by the announcement to come out of their homes, their workplaces and pray for the person that was wracked by emotional pain. In other words, they were not shunned or turned out. People were moved to action on their behalf.

Is this human behavior? Do people really act this way? If it were true there would be no leper colonies. If people behaved this way at public gatherings people would make as much conversation with the one-footed man as the well-coiffed debutante. Do they?

Elsewhere in the Talmud there is a fascinating and insightful discussion about good and bad prayers. What makes one worthy and another unworthy? In a dramatic example they give the following case: A person is coming home and they see flames leaping out of a house. Immediately they fear the worst and they utter a prayer, May it not be my house burning!

That is a vain and awful prayer, the Talmud tells. Why? we may wonder. Is that not a normal reaction? Would not most people say a similar prayer? Please let the house not be mine!

The Talmud instructs us it is indeed a reckless and vain prayer. In essence the prayer contains the undercurrent that it would be better if it were the blazing house of someone else. Not mine. The prayer wishes the pain be placed on another person. We are deliberately told to not say a prayer that insinuates another to suffer.

Somewhere deep in our minds is the belief that if another person loses, we win. Where our brother fails we succeed. While we may overtly pity the entrepreneur that flounders and drowns many of us thank God it was not us.... Now there is a better chance we have to succeed with less competition!

The message of Sinai is that we all stand together. Sinai seeks to change that mindset. When a single limb of the body is injured the body as a whole suffers.

In one of the most emotionally laden tales I have ever read about the Shoah, a father begged his rabbi to tell him what to do. It was erev Rosh Hashanna 1944 when hundreds of young boys were rounded up by the Nazis to be taken to the furnace the next day at Auschwitz. Many men found that their only sons were taken from them. One man went to a rabbi and told him that he had the ability to save his son from the murderers. They both understood he Nazis were determined to murder a specific number of Jews. If his son were saved another would die in his place. What should I do? he cried to his teacher. 1

What would Judaism teach? How would it instruct us to make a decision?

May God protect all His people, it should never happen again, and yet we are faced with similar quandaries every day. How we choose to slander and malign others for their apparent deficits happens countless times each day. If we decide to cut off lashon hara, idle chatter about people or ruthless slander, that will have an impact on the way we view ourselves and the way we see others.

Perhaps the deep lesson of the Torah is that every person is tameh and needs our concern. As broken creatures the worst thing we can ever do is break another one of the creations of God.


1 Rabbi Tzvi Hirsch Meisels in Medkadshay HaShem

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D'var Aher:

TAZRIA

This week’s Torah reading is about decay of the body, but from from ordinary processes.  Something is obviously wrong and a disease has taken hold of a person.   We have been ill or have relatives who have been stricken with disease.  Sometimes there are cures for the ailment; sometimes there is only palliative care.

We do everything we can live pain free and disease free.  People have practiced medicines since the inception of humankind to free us from all kinds of afflictions.

The Torah approaches this subject from a different perspective.  Although the question is never formally articulated, underlying the text is, “What do you learn from pain?”

Nothing in life should pass us without allowing us an opportunity to grow from that experience. Good and bad are both powerful teachers. In this sense there are two kinds of healing, one, which is physical and other, takes place on a far deeper level. I have seen many times when a disease enfolds a person and they cry out in dismay, “What did I do to deserve this?” It is a query that knows that nothing we did brought this affliction on.  We are not guilty of infusing our body with the disease and yet here we are. Here it is.  The spiritual healing that can happen afterward is acceptance and learning to live with, or die from, the disease.

But the Torah pushes us in a nuanced direction.  It asks us to look at what our tongue has done.  Have we spoken ill of people?  Has our mouth caused psychic lacerations on acquaintances?  Has our acerbic language been as devastating as cancer?

Torah is asking us to redirect our energies away from feeling sorry for ourselves and redirect them outward to heal ourselves and become a source of healing to others.

Disease does not always have a cure but it always has gifts tucked inside.

The Torah that we study, learn, teach our children and has been handed to us through the generations knows that we are potentially much better than we are.  That is why we “turn it over, turn it over because everything is in it.  And grow old in it” *

Pirkay Avot 5:22

Shmini, Silence

We do not know what we do not know.

Sometimes we even do not know what we do know.

Man was endowed with reason. When the first being was cast into life in the Garden, the Torah teaches that Adam was created in the “image” and “likeness” of his Creator. Rashi commented that the first description means that the first man was cast into a certain mold. The second description, likeness, points to the man having the power of reason. It is our gift of understanding.

From the time when God took the golem-form from the earth and breathed into the Breath of Life to the moment of overwhelming lust to have open eyes to the universe we became people in search of ourselves.

We fervently desire to understand what life means. We want to know why we live. What is our purpose? That is why stories such as the one told here is Shmini are so vexing. They raise more question than provide answers.

Here, Nadav and Avihu, sons of Aaron, die. Near the holy altar of God they are enveloped by a conflagration that excoriated their inner being while leaving their body/husk intact. A pitiful father has watched his sons die. What does this passage mean?

Some scholars tell that Nadav and Avihu were drunk. Intoxicated, they approached the holy of holies and were punished by a burst of heavenly fire.

Others tell that Nadav and Avihu were presumptuous. They came into the holy of holies unbidden. For the trespass they died.

Another commentator expresses the belief that they offered up incense out of their zealousness rather than follow the instructions of their father.

What is the truth? The Midrash and Talmud are littered with numerous ideas about the death of the two young kohanim. Some make sense while others leave us incredulous.
God comes to father Aaron to have a word with him after the inferno that left his sons dead. Through Moses, He tells him, “I will be honored in front of all the people.”

B’krovai ekadesh. “The ones whom I love will be made holy,” said the Holy One.

At these words Aaron was silent. Vayidom.

Did Aaron understand what God meant? Was his silence the response to hearing the explanation of God? Mute acceptance?

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Many, many years later a great Sage, Rabbi Yehudah, lay dying. His disciples arranged themselves around his bed and prayed for their teacher. They looked into the holy books, fasted and begged God to listen to their prayers and grant their leader life.

The servant of Rabbi Yehudah left the group and opened her heart before God. She prayed, “In the upper world they want our master. They call him. In the lower world the rabbis keep Rabbi Yehudah with their prayers. Listen, Lord, to the voice from Above. Let them be the stronger.”

She then took a jug and hurled it onto the ground so that all the holy men were momentarily distracted from their prayers. In that instance the Angel of Death kissed the venerable leader.

What did the maid servant do? Was she guilty of killing the holy rabbi? In distracting the Sages from their prayers she lifted the protective veil keeping Rabbi Yehudah alive. Was she to be blamed for his death?

One the Sages, Bar Kappara, investigated and found the girl. He saw what she had done and then commented, “Both angels and human beings were clinging to the holy Ark. The angels overpowered the humans and the Ark has been taken from us.”

Bar Kappara told his contemporaries that Rabbi Yehuda was like the holy Ark. They were both gone. What is gone is gone.

Yet, Bar Kappara did not blame the servant. He did not rail against the heavens. The end of the story closes abruptly.

Vayidom. And he was silent.
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Rabban Yohanan ben Zakki was in mourning for his son. His colleague and friend came to console him. Elazar ben Azariah said, “A long time ago a king gave a subject a precious gem to care for and watch. Each day the man guarded the jewel and fretted when the king would one day return to reclaim his property.

“The same is true for you, dear friend. You had a son who was rich in learning, steeped in lore and law. Now you have retuned the loan.”

Vayidom.

One commentary elevates Aaron for his silence. It was not just a silence in the face of the judgment of God, although that would be enough. Before an event we must take precautions to avoid mishap. After such an occurrence what can we do?
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The son of the Gerer Rebbe died just before the sun set on a Friday afternoon, before Shabbat. No one wanted to tell the great leader of the loss. No one wanted to deliver the message on the sacred day until one follower, a devout and meek hasid offered his condolences to the rebbe. The rebbe listened and then said, “Shh. Nu? It is Shabbos.”

The day continued and until the sun set on Saturday the rebbe still sang and taught with great joy. When Havdalah came the rebbe ripped his clothes, sank to the floor and cried and mourned for the shiva. Silent until Shabbat had ended, the pain of the Gerer Rebbe seemed to now hold no bounds.

Could this be real? Did this actually happen?
Whether or not it did happen perhaps the rays of light that are expelled from the story tale teach a lesson about our life.

The Zohar says that whoever weeps at the fate of Nadav and Avihu when they read this story will not suffer the same fate. Perhaps the lesson of silence is about acceptance.

Tzav: Forgiveness and Return

An anomaly: The fire on the mizb’ach, Tabernacle, was fed from heaven and earth at once. Commanded by Torah was to have three fires continually burning there. Each was fed by the dual sources. What is the point of tending an earthly fire when a heavenly fire is doing the same thing? Is that not redundant? Why not just have heavenly flames consume the sacrifice?

Compounding the problem, the kohane – the officiant at the miz’bach -- was also charged with the responsibility of stoking the flames. He had to add new wood to the pyre to keep it burning hot. This takes an already nonsensical issue and makes it even odder. Why was it necessary for the kohane to keep adding wood? They could spend more productive time elsewhere doing other things.

The ancient ones said that there are two moments in our lives that require God’s rapt attention. In fact, they go further by revealing that these two moments are more rigorous and taxing than the Splitting of the Sea. What are they? Connecting people to their livelihoods and to their spouses is a greater miracle than the part of the Sea!

Is it strange that in the process of obtaining a good job or finding a mate God rarely enters into the verbal picture? How many people thank HaShem that they found a good paying position? How often do we hear that a person praises God for finding their counterpart? The usual reaction to these life-changing situations is utter joy and self-congratulations. It is almost unheard to find a person praise God for such events.

For unanticipated events of life it is not unusual to hear the cry of “Oh my God!” On the other hand, for the blessings of life it is unusual to hear, “Thank God.” Human propensity is to take pride in our personal actions and heap the rest upon God.

The Torah recognizes that it is instinctual is to take credit for our accomplishments. Even if the Sea parts before our eyes we must have had something to do with it!

Is it really odd then that the kohane was charged with adding fuel to the burning fires of the mizb’ach? Is it strange that the kohane had the ongoing responsibility to stoke the flames despite the heavenly intervention?

While recognizing our human weakness Torah also seeks to gently point out to us the value of humility. The kohane brings fire to fire, a nearly useless exercise that teaches a profound lesson: All that we possess is a gift. The power that we exercise today is like fleeting vapor in the breadth of the universe.

Baruch HaShem for the newly sprouted buds on trees.
Baruch HaShem for the grass.
Baruch HaShem for our food.
Baruch HaShem for our light.
Baruch HaShem for companionship.
Baruch HaShem for our legacy.
Baruch HaShem for our job.
Baruch HaShem for our spouse.

As the siddur teaches us, “even our dominion over beasts is an illusion.”

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So much of Vayikra, the previous parsha, and this week contain similar information. They are both full of the regulations of the sacrifices. At first blush it seems pretty repetitive. There is, however, one striking difference between the parshiot. Last week there was no mention of Aaron at all! How could this be? Is not Aaron integral to the whole sacrificial rites?

According to a midrash, Moshe was carefully combing through the holy Text when he noticed that his brother, Aaron, was not mentioned once in the entire portion. All that the parasga Vayikra stated was a mention of the “sons of Aaron.” Moshe turned to God and questioned Him.

“Can it be that You hate the well but not the water that flows from it?” Moshe was really asking the Lord how He could turn His Face from Aaron while embracing his sons.

Moshe rightly assumed that the absence of the name of Aaron from last week was intentional. After all, Aaron was involved in the creation of the Golden Calf. His participation - however reluctant - was still sinful. True, Aaron had repented. Yet only God knows the inner workings of the heart. Perhaps his teshuva was incomplete.

Moral? Rambam reveals the final stage of teshuva, a full repentance, is when a person changes their inner self. So complete is this teshuva the person has moved to a higher level of being so that the sin is now so repugnant it is unthinkable. Until this stage is reached repentance is incomplete. Was Aaron not yet there? Is that why his name was conspicuously absent?

Moshe suspected that his brother was not forgiven. “Can it be that You hate the well but not the water that flows from it?” he begged God to forgive.

“For your sake it is done,” the Holy One responded.

In the second pasuk of this parasha this week, HaShem says, “Command Aaron and his sons saying..." The forgiveness is complete.

Idea: A primary reason many of the mitzvot are reiterated this week is for the sake of Aaron. Last week the Israelite nation learned about the mizb’ach and their relationship to God. Now, the actors of the rites, Aaron and his progeny are told in great detail how to effect those sacrifices.

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Imagine how it looked: The sin offering was given when a person did something wrong. The Jew then brought an animal to the mizb’ach as an act of contrition. They had seen in their heart they had done wrong. It was time to make amends.

In the same place at the altar another Jew would bring an olah, a simple gift to God. When their heart would open up and desire to bring an offering out of love they would come to the exact place by the mizb’ach as the one would had committed a sin.

As the two Jews would come to the same location at the mizb’ah to offer a gift or bring an expiation of their sin, no one could tell which one they brought to God. No one would know who was guilty and who was jubilant.

Moral? The respect we give to other people is paramount. We must avoid humiliating people at all cost.